self hate

2018, Communication, Disease, Fear, Friendship, Haters gonna hate, Health, Identity, Life, Love, Marriage, Mental Health, Relationships, Self-Care, Self-Help, Self-worth, social media, Spread love, Work

Compromised Self-Esteem: The Birthplace of Hate

Stephanie Pearson-Davis ·

To be clear, social media doesn’t really make anyone hate their life.  You hate your life because you hate your life.  You continue to make the same choices, revisit the same places, roll around with the same individual and wonder why nothing in your life is different.  I believe Einstein had words to say about that kind of behavior.  He called it insanity.  Einstein was correct.  Imagine that.  Unfortunately, you haven’t heard the wise words of the late great Einstein.  So, you stay on the ferris wheel. Professing to hate every minute of it.  Screaming to get off.  Yet, never removing your safety belt.  Never standing.  Never being miserable enough to stop the revolutions.

2018, Children, Communication, Courage, Fear, Health, Identity, Life, Love, Nutrition, Self-Care, Self-Help, Self-worth, Clothing

Put On The Swimsuit... Get In The Picture

Stephanie Pearson-Davis ·

So, first we have to acknowledge the facts.  We are plus size.  We are overweight.  We said we wanted to lead a more healthy lifestyle.  We KEEP saying we want to lead a more healthy lifestyle.  We had three seasons to get our life together.  Fall, Winter and Spring have passed.  We didn’t get our life together.  To that end, we are still chubby.  Is there anything wrong with that?  Nope— Unless you want to be something else.