This translates in adulthood to women who are environmental chameleons.  Code switching as a dating mechanism.  Ugh.  A woman who transforms into who she thinks the man would find most agreeable.  This is really so so tragic.  It is a prison of your own design.  This is why I cringe every single time I see a video of a man telling a woman how to find a man.  It would be far more advantageous if she knew how to find herself.  Maybe that’s not what the men in these videos really want… A woman who values her own identity more than she values attaching herself to a man to gain it. Yeah… That part.