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2018, Communication, Health, Identity, Life, Love, Marriage, Parenting, Relationships, Self-worth

How To Get and Stay Married: What I Think I Know... Part Two

The Other Women In His Life.  I know this is a touchy area so I’m going to speak carefully.  His momma is his momma baby girl.  A man who loves his mother or his grandmother???  Yessssss!!!  #IssaWin That man is going to love you deep.  Yes… He will look for comparisons and connections.  No.  You are not his mother and you never will be, BUT he has chosen you as a reflection of her.  She has built the best foundation for him to love you.  She literally gave him life.  Why do you resent the relationship?  Why don’t you like her?

2018, Children, Communication, Career Goals, Identity, Life, Love, Marriage, Parenting, Relationships, Self-Care, Self-Help, Self-worth, Support Others, Work

Stay At Home Moms: A Read For Those Who Don't Get It

I don’t know where people get the idea that we have nothing to do or we’d rather be doing something else.  I literally cannot think of the last time I was bored at home.  Also, the idea that SAHM’s have “settled” or given up on their dreams.  Look into my eyes:  We are not being held against our will. I don’t need to qualify my life to you.  Worry about your deferred dreams. #JudgeYourOwnSelf