Marriage is a promise… a commitment in every moment to hold on to one another.  It has nothing to do with how you feel.  This isn’t directly discussed often enough.  People feel shame about the state of their marriage because everyone wants to be viewed as #RelationshipGoals.  In my opinion, #RelationshipGoals isn’t a couple who never shares a curt word, an exasperated tone or a rolled eye.  #RelationshipGoals is when a couple has experienced a shaking, a disruption to everything that is comfortable, but still manages to see each other through it… minus resentment.