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2018, Emotional Health, Friendship, Life, Love, Relationships

Expectation: The Genesis of Disappointment

As I began to reflect; expectation boiled down to two things: Vulnerability and Trust. 

We have previously discussed vulnerability. I have written about its’ importance and the strength we find when we embrace vulnerability. Yet, here I was beating myself up for being vulnerable… for opening myself up to disappointment. This is why I say, “I’m not here because I’m an expert. I’m here because I have experiences.” I’m no master at this. I’m struggling and growing and learning just like you. I stand out only because I share my experiences; not because I’ve mastered them.

Friendship, 2018, Relationships, Parenting

I Like You, But Not Your Kid

Fast hard truth.  Our kids don’t need to be friends in order for us to be friends.  Step further: I really don’t even need to see your child for us to be friends. Like we can share stories about our children… We can talk about their grades… How much we love them…. How they get on our nerves… We can even go shopping for them together. And we can leave it right there.