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2018, Children, Communication, Death, Fear, Grief, Identity, Life, Love, Mental Health, Parenting, Relationships, Self-Care

Boys Who Do Not Cry Become Emotionally Constipated Men

I was pretty rough and tumble as a child. I played with my brother and his friends all the time and wore my tomboy title like a badge of honor. I even earned a few bumps and bruises along the way. So, the scab didn’t concern me at all. I'm not a free range parent, but I'm also miles away from helicopter parenting. I mostly let children being children. They run, they play, they fall. The end.

My boy was up in his Nana's lap when she noticed the atrocity on his knee."What happened to my baby’s knee!?!” If your children have a Nana like my children; you know she acted like the boy had staples in his knee. She was appalled. So, I quickly told her what happened according to his father who was his caretaker at the time in question *snicker. At the end of my explanation, I gratuitously added, “And he didn’t even cry.” *insert my proud face

2018, Children, Communication, Identity, Love, Life, Parenting, Relationships, Support Others

Our Elders Need Us to See Them

LISTEN…. I was stuck after she said her children were waiting on her to die so they could have her stuff.  Like, is this what seniors… what older parents are worried about???  Are children really taxing their beloved parents with worry about only wanting their possessions?  Are children really only seeing their parents when they need or want something?  Are children teaching their own children the same behavior?  Because you know they’re watching you; right?  They know your mother and or father live right down the street, but you won’t throw a glass of water when you ride by.  You know you will be on the receiving end of this one day; right? Ok then.